Nothing will work if you don’t believe in yourself. Believing in yourself will create a big difference in your life. It would not only help you to be confident but also help you to live your life. There are unspoken thoughts like self-doubt and vulnerability that drive people crazy, make them indecisive and confused. This will only limit you no matter how great the opportunities are that you are exposed to.
“As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live,”
Be determined to make the situation work rather than play the role of the victim and searching for reasons why a situation would not work. You need have that trust and confidence on yourself that you can do it by hook or by crook. Believe that you can make your goals work. Have that trust in yourself that whatever the situation is you can figure out a way through it.
Do you believe that change is possible for you? Believe that you can become better. Believe that you can raise the bar in your own life regardless of what the world aspects. Believe in yourself and people around you. You can make anything happen if you believe in it.
It’s hard to believe in yourself when you have negative feelings piled up inside you. In order to overcome that you can gather all the accomplishments and future realistic goals that you have set and look upon them for motivation. Make new inspiring friends who makes you grow, have a new perspective about things and life in general by interacting with different people. Keep reading to learn more. Be proactive and persistent. Challenge yourself and do things that are hard and add them in your accomplishments. Also take care of yourself: healthy, active, nourished, well maintained.
Every single day is a new day with amazing opportunities to get up and change that sense of not doing anything. Believe in your potential and the potential of what you can do. Promise yourself that you can do this. Set example for your friends who have issues believing in themselves.
You need to believe that it’s completely fine to try and fail. To put yourself out there and not be perfect. People may judge you, put you off, discourage you but it’s negative. It’s all positive. Keep learning and growing with the influence people have on your life. Failures are positive. How? This is because unless you try and fail, you wouldn’t understand what you are lacking and what your capabilities are.
“Don’t waste your energy trying to change opinions…do your thing and don’t care if they like it or not.”
Push past your discomfort, put yourself out there and it’s OK with not knowing whether people will accept you or not. Stick to the habits and values which you believe in and don’t let others influence you in any way. Learn to trust yourself and your decisions. Know that it’s OK to fail, try again and fall again. You are strong. Believe in yourself.
In order to believe in yourself you need to protect your heart. Don’t hand it to anyone. Guard it, because everything you do or create comes from it. Also, don’t just let anything enter into your mind. Avoid lame shit, it will only work as a garbage in your head. Identify and prioritize your values. Know your real purpose and then everything will come later. This will give you a clear image of what you need in life as compare to what you really want. Read biographies and watch videos of inspirational and learn from their experiences. A rejection doesn’t mean you should stop doing what you are doing it. It means you need to do it differently but keep trying. Start speaking confidently and assertively. Work your ass off, identify what you can control and can’t control, fail but rise again.
“Always be yourself and have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and try to duplicate it.” — Bruce Lee